Big Fat Secret

This post is all about weight.  Get it.  Big FAT Secret, hahaha.

me and puns today, I'm tellin ya! hahahahahah

Let me start off my warning that some of these pictures show women mostly naked.  Also let me inform you that I am 5'3 and 185 pounds. I may be "obese" but that doesn't make me not hot. Let me just be honest, I am pretty freaking amazing looking (;

So it sort of relates to my food post (to be done at later date) but then again it doesn't.

Being fat doesn't mean that you eat too much or don't exercise enough, sometimes it is just how the body is.  So before I go on ranting, I am going to explain that it was pictures that made me want to make this blog.

Pictures like:

Uhh, other than loving me for me?

 AND

I'd rather keep calm and eat a cupcake!

I mean, what type of message are we sending our girls?  That Being skinny is the only thing that matters.... well yeah. That is the message. And I just want to say, fuck all of that.

Kate Moss once said "Nothing tastes as good as being skinny feels."  What type of fucked up life is she living.   Why the hell do we encourage people to walk down runways looking like Skeletor and tell our kids that this is what they should strive to be. This is couture. This is beauty.

Who doesn't want to look like this?

These thoughts cause so many problems with our psyches.

She just needs to lose five more pounds

Our girls see this every day when they look in the mirror.  They don't see the beauty that they are, they see how they are not "normal" or "hot".  Well, my darlings...

You are beautiful

I mean, why the hell are size -1 girls the ideal now? What happened to sexy girls with big child bearing hips and plush bodies being hot?

mmmm, I like the rubbing of her thighs!

I'm not saying that skinny girls are the devil, in fact they can be beautiful as well as bigger girls.  Everyone has beauty in them.  Sometimes it is hard for us to see it in others, especially when we are blinded by what others are telling them is beauty.

All of these women are beautiful

So here are some things that make me, a bigger lady feel better about my own big ass self!

I too love my tig o bitties... also this girl looks fucking RAD!

The books The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round things (about a girl who refuses to lose weight to make her family happy) and This Book is Fat its Fabulous (AMAZING!! About a girl who goes to fat camp with anger because she says she loves herself but she finds out what it really means to love herself at the camp).

It is pretty big and cushy!

Fat Bottom Girls by Queen (though I wouldn't want a man to serenade me with it O_o )

I love this Nike ad because it shows a woman who is fit, yet who has curves!

She does look amazing!

So now that I feel all self promoting about my weight and how amazing I am, and feel as though I made some shitty blog about nothing but things that make me feel better I'll sign off.  Let me just say two things.

One being:  This woman is beautiful, and I am so envious of her because of that beauty and her obvious happiness and acceptance

<3

And if people can't accept you because your thighs rub together or because you have a birthmark or your hair is the wrong color... well...

they can suck your (nonexistant?) dick